In the latest episode of "Masked Monologues: The Anonymous Podcast for Creatives," I had the pleasure of speaking with Benny Voncken, a remarkable individual behind Via Stoica. Benny is passionate about sharing the wisdom of stoicism to help others improve their lives through life coaching, public speaking, corporate trainings, and workshops. This blog post delves into our enlightening conversation, focusing on how Benny's approach to stoicism can offer practical tools for living a better life.
Embracing Stoicism: Benny’s Journey
Benny Voncken, hailing from a small village in the Netherlands, has traveled extensively over the last 14 years, living in places like Spain, Dubai, and most recently, spending eight months in South and Central America. His journey into stoicism began as he sought tools to overcome life's obstacles and find greater clarity and balance. He has since dedicated his life to helping others discover the benefits of stoicism, not to turn them into stoics, but to offer them a path to a more peaceful and purposeful life.
Defining Stoicism and Its Practical Application
Stoicism has gained popularity in recent years, often misunderstood or narrowly defined as a philosophy of emotional suppression. Benny explains that true stoicism is about practical application in daily life, focusing on four core virtues: wisdom, justice, courage, and temperance. He emphasizes living in accordance with nature, which means aligning one's actions with inner values and rational judgment. This approach allows individuals to navigate life's challenges with greater resilience and clarity.
Applying Stoicism in Coaching
Benny’s coaching method is deeply influenced by stoic principles. He uses the philosophy to remain objective, observe without judgment, and guide his clients through thoughtful questioning. By helping clients focus on what they can control and defining their core values, Benny aids them in finding direction and meaning in their lives. This process often involves redefining success away from material pursuits and towards inner fulfillment and virtuous living.
Building Via Stoica: From Blog to Business
Via Stoica was co-founded by Benny, Bryce, and Brendan, who met through stoic spaces on X (formerly Twitter). Their shared philosophy and complementary skills naturally led to the creation of Via Stoica, offering a range of services from coaching to workshops and a podcast. Benny initially started with a blog, "The Stoic Padawan," which quickly gained traction and led to the development of a life coaching service. The team’s combined efforts and the organic growth of their community have been key to their success.
The Role of Social Media: Leveraging X Spaces
One of the standout tools for Via Stoica's growth has been X Spaces, a platform for live audio conversations. Benny highlights how these spaces have been instrumental in building a community, fostering discussions, and testing their messaging. Although not the primary source for clients, these spaces have enhanced their credibility and expanded their reach, making it an invaluable part of their strategy.
The Stoic Coaching Process at Via Stoica
For those interested in working with Via Stoica, the process begins with a free 30-minute consultation. This initial session helps identify the client's needs and set goals. The coaching is highly tailored, focusing on the individual’s personal challenges and incorporating stoic techniques like journaling, gratitude practices, and the dichotomy of control. Benny’s approach is dynamic and adaptable, ensuring that each client receives the guidance they need to achieve lasting change.
Final Thoughts
Benny Voncken’s journey and his work with Via Stoica illustrate the profound impact that stoicism can have on personal growth and fulfillment. His emphasis on practical application and living in accordance with one’s values offers a refreshing perspective in today's fast-paced world.
To learn more about Benny and Via Stoica, visit his website. Connect with Benny on Instagram here.
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For more inspiring content, stay tuned to "Masked Monologues: The Anonymous Podcast for Creatives."
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